I'm a Certified Master Coach, helping successful men who feel more like roommates than lovers with their wives, create THRIVING connections in AND out of the bedroom.
My wife Kate and I have been together for longer than we've been apart (Kate was still in high school).
Our life together seemed great when we were young. We were checking all the boxes towards creating a successful marriage! We finished school, got a great job, bought a home, adopted a dog, and had some kids.
Little did we know, things were about to take a nose dive...
It seemed like all of a sudden, we started to learn things about each other that didn't seem relevant in the early stages of our relationship.
Before I knew it, our marriage had taken a NASTY turn.
I was struggling with being a husband and father, and because of this, I dove deeper into my work and struggled with alcoholism.
I was very successful in my career, but at home, I felt like a failure, so I checked out and avoided being a husband and father as much as possible.
This led to a very unhealthy dynamic in our marriage. Kate felt alone and just couldn't reach me.
We fought daily...and we mean MAJOR FIGHTS! It felt like our marriage was a ticking time bomb. We went to counselling more times than we can count.
Nothing seemed to work.
Kate expressed that our marriage was over, and she wanted to separate. She loved me but was not longer "in love" with me. She didn't know exactly what she was moving towards, and just "needed space"
That moment was a wake-up call for me. I had to face myself and admit that unless something changed, I would lose my family for good.
I made a commitment to myself and my family that I would learn the skills to create a marriage that Kate WANTED to be a part of.
I took 100% ownership of myself, and my ability to lead. I read books, listened to podcasts, joined men's groups, and got coaching.
I put thousands of hours into learning new skills that completely transformed me.
During that time, I noticed there was a shift. Not only in myself, but in the way Kate connected with me. It felt real again.
Almost like we were moving in the right direction for the first time in forever.
I didn't know if Kate would want to stay with me when I started this journey, I thought it might be too late for us.
That's why I needed help.
My coaches and mentors believed in me when I couldn't believe in myself.
And that's why I'm here now. We want to help men who feel stuck like I once was.
I want to help you create a marriage your wife WANTS to be a part of.
I believe EVERY man can REVIVE his relationship, and make sure the BEST years of their marriage are ahead of them, as long as they are committed and have the courage to LEAD.
Thank you for being here and taking care of your most precious relationship!