“I love you, but I’m not IN love with you.”

I was blindsided when my wife Kate shared this with me. I had no idea that she felt disconnected, unappreciated and frustrated that our once passionate love life dwindled to mere routine.

Our breaking point came when Kate expressed her desire to separate. It was a wake-up call for me. I realized that unless I made a change, I would lose my family for good.

That moment was a wake-up call for me. I call it “The Start of the Solution”

I had to face myself and admit that unless something changed, I would lose my family for good.

I made a commitment to myself and my family that I would learn the skills to create a marriage that Kate WANTED to be a part of.

I took 100% ownership of myself and my ability to lead. I read books, listened to podcasts, joined men's groups, and got coaching. 

I put thousands of hours into learning new skills that completely transformed me.

During that time, I noticed there was a shift. Not only in myself but also in the way Kate connected with me. It felt real again.

Almost like we were moving in the right direction for the first time in forever.

When I started this journey, I didn't know if Kate would want to stay with me, and I thought it might be too late for us.

That's why I needed help.

My coaches and mentors believed in me when I couldn't believe in myself.

And that's why I'm here now. We want to help men who feel stuck like I once was.

I want to help you create a marriage your wife WANTS to be a part of.

I believe EVERY man can REVIVE his relationship and ensure the best years of his marriage are ahead of him, as long as he is committed and has the courage to lead.

If you want help on your journey, reach out so we can chat. This might be the Start of your own Solution.